Like I....in few months ago I was absolutely workaholic and having not a slice of free time. I tried to do everything to do my work best, but now I have seen life is not only about money and being something or someone who I am not. I am just who I am. I don't really need hundreds of friends everywhere, I just need myself and my life again. So that I can feel it and trust myself of doing the right things in my life.
Have you ever wondered if you do in life what you really like to do?
I know for all my life, or let me say most of my life, I was hating my work, and everything about it. Now, I have the chance to change that on my own. I know it is a hard decision, but it's better now than later, don't you think so?
In regarding to change it I made some conclusions, which I know other's don't like it, but hey. For who do I live for them or for myself? Definitely I want to live. Really live.To have excitement, adrenalin, to feel my heart in my body and bot doing the same work day by day. I have been doing that for past 12 years and where am I? Frankly no where. In decision to that I have done some changes in my life. For other's they are small but for me they are huge.
Be brilliant in your world. Don't worry what other's say, just be yourself.
Make decisions and start going on with your life.
Start working on yourself. For someone is that to start going on diet and for other's that mean start reading or doing sport activities. It doesn't matter what as long as you are happy with it.
Do something good in one day and try to help on this or other way to another human beside you.
Don’t dramatize. Lots of people inflate small setbacks into life-threatening catastrophes and react accordingly. This habit makes mountains out of molehills and gives people anxieties that either don’t exist or are so insignificant they aren’t worth worrying about anyway. Why do they do it? Who knows? Maybe to make themselves feel and seem more important. Whatever the reason, it’s silly as well as destructive.
Stop jumping to conclusions. There are two common ways this habit increases people’s difficulties. First, they assume that they know what is going to happen, so they stop paying attention and act on their assumption instead. Human beings are lousy fortune-tellers. Most of what they assume is wrong. That makes the action wrong too. The second aspect of this habit is playing the mind-reader and assuming you know why people do what they do or what they’re thinking. Wrong again, big time. More relationships are destroyed by this particular kind of stupidity than by any other.
Don’t assume your emotions are trustworthy. How you feel isn’t always a good indicator of how things are. Just because you feel it, that doesn’t make it true. Sometimes that emotion comes from nothing more profound than being tired, hungry, annoyed, or about to get a head-cold. The future won’t change because you feel bad—nor because you feel great. Feelings may be true, but they aren’t the truth.
And most important...
Don’t hang on to the past. This is my most important suggestion of all: let go and move on. Most of the anger, frustration, misery, and despair in this world come from people clinging to past hurts and problems. The more you turn them over in your mind, the worse you’ll feel and the bigger they’ll look. Don’t try to fight misery. Let go and move on. Do that and you’ve removed just about all its power to hurt you.
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